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New here? Six of the best Dad's Dead posts on parenting, emigrating from South Africa to Perth, and getting older.

Dad’s Dead is a newsletter for people in their 40s who are somewhere between fine and not fine. I moved my family from South Africa to Perth and write about what that does to a man, mostly in the school car park.

If you’re new, these six give you the idea.

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Drowned Rat

The day I nearly drowned in an open water swim and a stranger shouted "well done, dad" at me.

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The Rat’s Back

Taking on water like the Titanic, and getting back in the ocean anyway.

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Small Talk

Being so bad at it that I skip straight to cancer and sharks.

Grandmother knitting beside a cricket field at golden hour

Dot Ball

The two people who gave me every Wednesday and Saturday.

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Anybody else shitting themselves?

Anxiety at Disney on Ice, and what I did differently this time.

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I Wonder If There is a Schindler’s Lifts in Germany?

Not my fight. Not today, Alfred. I want to get my passport.

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